Autism isn't a joke. It's something that exists withing a wide portion of people, who are all different and don't fit a certain mold. However, there are certain traits in the media that supposedly all autistic people possess, and that's what this post is about.
I'm no stranger to autism. It's something many people in my life have been diagnosed with, including my brother. I had a diagnosis at one point in my life, and although my diagnosis was taken away, it's still a part of who I am that I'm learning to not be ashamed of. I've seen and experienced first-hand the harmful stereotypes that are associated with autism. These harmful stereotypes can be executed through the media.
Autism Speaks is an organization that is very guilty of this. The things they put out about autistic people are some of the most offensive things that I've seen in my lifetime. The fact that they are the most well-known "charity" for autism only makes it scarier that their message is the one that most have seen. Here is a commercial Autism Speaks took down, but someone reuploaded. While they did take it down, it sparked much controversy and still reflects exactly how autism is portrayed by the masses.
The first half of the commercial is absolutely disgusting, and autistic people everywhere were enraged when this commercial was put out. Saying autism knows "no morality" portrays autistic people as cold, unrelenting, unforgiving. Saying "I will make sure that your marriage fails" tells every autistic viewer that by simply being themselves and existing, that they are responsible for any problems their parents face in their marriage. "I will make it virtually impossible for your family to easily attend a temple, birthday party, or public park without a struggle, without embarrassment, without pain." If Autism Speaks's intention was to make all autistic people feel guilty for things they aren't able to control, I guess they succeed there.
While it turns into a seemingly positive message halfway through the ad, according to this video, autism is something that needs to be eradicated, it's something that is bad. Something to look down upon, and it's something that we must fight. Autistic people are constantly erased through messages like these, and told that something that has become a part of who we are is something we need to get rid of.
Other forms of autistic representations in the media portray autistic people as emotionless voids, such as Dr. Dixon from Grey's Anatomy who has Asperger's.
Dr. Dixon is very much portrayed as one-dimensional, and somehow has every trait at once, all to an extreme. She doesn't make eye contact with anyone, and doesn't seem to really have any emotions, among other things.
What the media fails to portray is the diversity among people who have autism. Autism knows no one form of existing. Every autistic person acts in different ways. While there may be some common traits, no one trait fits for everyone. No stereotype about autism, no negative connotation can be the case for everyone.
Autistic people are wonderful. Autistic people are intelligent, autistic people have emotions, and we sure as hell aren't burdens.